Together as One

Together as One

Thursday, May 30, 2013

Quietness of Soul



Last evening some of us were able to spend some time
 enjoying the beauty of a quiet evening with nature.

 
These stork looking birds aren't the prettiest birds in God's creation
but they were interesting to watch.


 
 
"Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow..."
 
"they toil not, neither do they spin."

 
"And yet I say unto you, That even Solomon in all his glory
was not arrayed like one of these."
 


 
"The Lord preserveth all them that love him:"




 
"The earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof;
the world, and they that dwell therein."






"When I consider thy heavens, the work of thy fingers....
what is man, that thou art mindful of him?
and the son of man, that thou visitest him?"

 
"O Lord our Lord;
how excellent is thy name in all the earth."



 
"Oh magnify the Lord with me,
and let us exalt His Name together."


 
"Oh taste and see that the Lord is good;
 blessed is the man that trusteth in Him."

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

The Beauty of God's Order of Headship

The Beauty of God’s Order of Headship



Headship is such a beautiful part of God’s order.

It is an order of authority.

I Corinthians 11:3

“But I would have you know, that the head (authority) of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is man

and the head of Christ is God.”

God--Christ--Man--Woman



An order of headship does not mean that one has more value, intelligence, beauty, ability, worth than the other.

It simply means that God designed us with different roles, functions, authority, and order.

From the beginning of creation, God created

man and woman with different functions,

roles, and responsibilities.

Even creation itself has order.



I Cor. 11:2 Paul praises the Corinthian believers for remembering him and for keeping the ordinances that had been given to them.



I Cor. 11:4, 7 “But every man praying or prophesying with his head covered, dishonored his head.

For a man indeed ought not to cover his head,

forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God.”

When do men pray and prophesy , is this only for in public worship, and what does covered mean?

I Thess. 5:17 “Pray without ceasing.”

I Tim. 2:8 “But I would therefore that men pray everywhere…”

Eph. 6:18 “Praying always…”

What is prophesying and does it only include

foretelling the future?

It includes foretelling the future but it also declaring God’s Truth and speaking under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit.

Rom. 12:6 “Prophesy according to the portion of faith.”

I Cor. 14:39 “Covet to prophesy…”

I Peter 3:15 “Be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you…”

If a man prays or prophesies with his head covered, he dishonors his head, who is Christ.

The Jews worshipped with their heads covered, copying Moses.

Now God is instructing them through Paul to pray and prophesy with their heads uncovered. The uncovered head was a distinguishing mark of a follower of Christ. For them to continue to cover their heads would have been an act of rebellion.



Covered is veiled, something hanging down over.



Man was created in the image of God.

He was created to be a leader, a provider, and protector

for those under his authority.

Whenever a man fails to do these,

he violates God’s order of headship.

Man should think of nature and creation. God created him to hold authority. He is not to be in rebellion or a non-conformist to Scipture, not even over a simple matter as the length of his hair.

I Cor. 11:14 “Doth not even nature itself teach you, that if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?”



Woman is the glory of man.

She has a place of her own in God’s creation, but her place is not man’s. Her place is by the side of man, highly exalted as his queen. She reigns in majesty by the side of man as his glory.

She is not to rebel against authority

or bring embarrassment and dishonor to him.

She is to cover her head by wearing the veil that symbolizes her honor of God’s order of authority.

I Cor. 11:5,6, 15 “But every woman praying or prophesying with her head uncovered dishonored her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven. For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered. Judge in yourselves: is it comely (proper) that a woman pray unto God uncovered?”

It is just as shameful for a woman to shave her head as it is for her to refuse to cover her head. It’s also interesting that

Scripture uses both shorn and shaven.

Shorn is as with a shearing instrument

and shaven is as with a razor.

Is her hair her covering?

The Greek words are distinctly different.

I Cor. 11:15 “But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering.”

In I Cor. 11:4-7, 13 it is katakalupto,

which is covered down over; veiled.

In I Cor. 11:15 it is peribolaion, which is covered (thrown, wrapped) around; meaning the hair.



William Ramsey: “In Oriental lands the veil is the power and dignity of the woman. With the veil on her head she can go anywhere in security and profound respect. Without the veil the woman is a thing of nought, whom anyone may insult.”



I Cor. 11:10 “For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels.”

Power is authority, right, strength.

It makes a difference to the angels if a woman’s head is covered.

The angels recognize authority

because there is an order of authority in heaven.



 

A man who keeps his head uncovered yet fails to step up and take the lead in his home is acting inconsistently

If a woman covers her head but does not respect and submit to the authority of man, she is living inconsistently.



Submission is to willingly place oneself under

the direction of another.

When is submission not submission?

When it is forced. When it is unwilling.

What does the Bible call a lack of submission?

Rebellion--something that is as bad as witchcraft (I Samuel 15:23), because by its very nature it is taking

the enemy’s side against God.

How does a lack of submission manifest itself in one’s life?

The more obvious ways are open disobedience to authority, defiance, and “having an attitude”. But it doesn’t stop there; any disobedience is rebellion. And often disobedience is camouflaged. Some say “Yes, Lord” but still go their own way; others say “I am obeying” even when they aren’t; and some say “It’s not for me”.



There are some things about the uncovered head of man and the covered head of woman that we don’t clearly understand. We can only conclude that God knew it would be that way-- indeed, planned it that way. And, we also conclude that God expects us to lovingly and joyfully obey anyway--

for that is what submission really is.



Man and woman depend on each other for existence, by God’s design. Whether man comes from woman or woman comes from man; both are of God and both have their place and function, calling and purpose. They need each other in many ways, complimenting each other. They coexist in harmony and peace when they joyfully submit to God’s established order in love.



 

I Cor. 11:16 “But if any man seem to be contentious, we have no other practice, neither the churches of God.” NIV

God’s instructions do not need to make sense to us in order for us to be obligated to obey them.



 

I am challenged once again to live my life consistently

in God’ s order of headship/ authority.

When Christian men in the home and the church take their place as leaders in submission to God, and when women take their place in submission to men, God’s kingdom will prosper.

If either one rebels, God’s kingdom will suffer.

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Someday we're going to vacation in Florida!

Life in the fast lane...
Two and a half months have flown past since I last posted and in my mind I've written at least six updates.  Funny how writing and posting in your mind doesn't get it done online! :)
 
So very much water has gone 'under the bridge' in the past several months:
This time of the year in Florida has been compared to a freight train;
"You either get on or get off."
I say "You either get on or get mowed over!"
 
It begs the questions:
How do you maintain a sense of privacy
in a public world? 
How do you withdraw into a quiet place
 when you have to search hard
to even find a quiet place?
I'm still searching for the answers...
 
Last Sunday we celebrated Dustin's 23rd birthday in an unusual way.
 
We have all been feeling the need of finding some way
to find some place of privacy.  A place of just 'us' in a city of people.
We discussed it, prayed about it, and tried to work with the children who were putting in
six-day work weeks, leaving only Sunday as a day when we would all be home.
I would not recommend using Sundays habitually as a day for family privacy because
the Scripture definitely directs us to meet together as a church body
on the first day of the week.
But as an exception, we chose Sunday. 
Actually our day of R and R began Saturday
evening after the boys got home from work.
We went to the mall and enjoyed some delicious Thai food (one of our favorites).
Then, being at the mall, we "had" to shop for just a bit!
No earth-shaking purchases but still being together.
 
Sunday morning we all slept until around 10:00,
had a time of sharing God's Word together,
went to Firehouse (another family favorite) and got sub sandwiches
and then headed for Siesta Key where we rented two scooters and
a scooter car "for the more aged in our family"!
What fun!
For four hours we rode around Siesta Key,
finding streets we didn't know were there,
putting the "older folks" on the scooters, too,
while the younger drove the scooter car,
and laughed together alot!
Laughter does a body good!
 
Dustin wanted to finish his birthday off with some
special "Meany's Mini-Donuts" on Siesta Key,
so we topped it off with donuts.
Delicious delicacies but Oh, so sweet!
 
We came home wind-blown but happy!
Nothing like a day outside to clear your brain!
 
For dinner we made soup and salad
and spent the rest of the evening relaxing.
We were all tired but felt refreshed!
 
It was interesting....
Dustin is an 'out-door' type of guy and loves
doing things outside.
When we were planning our day, the weather forecast
was for an 80 percent chance of rain
which was dashing all of our ideas for a day outside.
We talked of taking our camper and going away for the weekend
and trying to find  a woods without people to park it in;
but soon discovered woods without people also means no
electricity or water!  Wouldn't work!
And if it was going to rain all weekend it would not be relaxing
to have six adult people in a small camper.
So we decided to do a stay-at-home-vacation
and use the money that we would have spent on a motel or campsite
to do some things locally that we have never done.
 
We were so thrilled that God blessed us with a day of
blue skies and sunshine!
Couldn't have been more perfect!
 
We are unanimously agreed that some winter
we would love to vacation in Florida,
live like tourists, and do things we never have time to do
because we live here!
 
 
 
 
 

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Fall Festival

Palm Grove Youth and Sponsors hosted the
Palm Grove Fall Festival...
 
Everyone was welcome to bring their own lawn chair and enjoy some food and festivities.
 
Normally this is done as a fund raiser for the youth but this area can become
"Fund Raiser Heaven" during the winter months so the youth and sponsors
decided to do it as an act of service to the church,
especially keeping in mind those with families
or  those feeling a financial crunch right now.
 
The youth worked in teams and came up with their own 'booth'.
They were quite creative and came up with some very interesting things!
 
At the front gate we had paper bags for the little kids to put all their prizes in.
Most of the youth kids had prizes at their booths.
 
"Let the evening begin..."
 
 
This was a balance beam and the goal was to knock your opponent off.
These were sticks wrapped in foam cushion so it didn't get too violent.

 
Here was a cornhole tournament... but it got dark before the tournament was over.

 
Here you could get a homemade smoothie..."Detwiler Style"!
Peach-Strawberry-Banana

 
 
An old-fashioned apple bobbing...

 
What?!  An "ANGRY BIRDS" game at a festival?! 
Sure, I'll try that!

 
And a "Toilet Paper Toss"...
Yep, real toilet paper, real toilet seat!!

 
 
Hamburgers, Hotdogs, French Fries, and lots of beverages...
 
 


 
Good fellowship!

 
Here you could win a prize if you could throw
a ping pong ball into a fish bowl!
 
 
 
Archery skills tested here...

 
Fancy face painting done here...
 
 

 
Here you could buy a raffle ticket for $1.00 and have a chance to
win a prize every 30 minutes...

 
A good festival MUST have FOOD!!!

 
 
At the Photo Booth some crazy things happened...
 
                                     
(our deacon and wife?!)

...a couple probably off the street that we probably don't know!
 
Aww...love! 
 
 Mobster Mother and Daughter!!
 
The photographers tried to find time for a break...

but we always hunted them down and made them
come back because of the lines of people
waiting to have their pictures done!

 (Do tell!! The pastors and their wives?!)
 
 
 
Isn't this just too adorable?!
 
 

Deacon? Sponsors?  Surely not!
 
A combination family of mobsters and street gear! 
 
Here you could ring a pumpkin and win a prize...
Wait! You could even win a prize for trying!!

 
 
The "Office"...

 
A softball toss....although this looks like a frisbee to me!
 
 
 
 
 
Guess who won a cupcake at the "Cupcake Walk"?!

 
...and the "Guard Dog on Patrol" a.k.a. "Riley"...
making sure order was kept! 
 
 
One thing we regretted was that we wanted to go around
 and try all the different things ourselves but by the time we were all set up...
it was time to open!!
We'll know better for next time! :)
 
Donations were accepted but not necessarily expected.
We wanted to make it a fun night where people could come
and enjoy a relaxing evening with family and friends
but not have to spend a lot of money.
 
We were blessed beyond measure and
were amazed at how the blessing came back to us!
 
Detwiler's Market astounded us by their generosity!
They allowed us to use anything we wanted from their market for decor
and they also donated all the fruit for our smoothies!
John Yoder, once again, did all our grilling!
Another couple surprized us by donating all the meat for the sandwiches
 so the youth ended up having some money left over for the Youth Fund!!
 
Thank  You!!
We were definitely challenged to have a more giving spirit about us!
 
We opened the gates at 4:00 p.m. and the sun went down soon after 7:00.
The youth kids started cleaning up around 7:30 and most of us
were on our way home by 8:30.
We saw again how many willing hearts working together
make a big job seem small!
 
 
Plan on joining us next fall...


Wednesday, October 10, 2012

"What did our Founding Fathers believe?"

At the risk of sounding controversial
 I shall attempt to share a small part of what we have been studying in History. 
 
I have always believed that America was founded by Christian leaders.  Growing up, most of my learning has been through Christian schooling; and in our homeschooling we have used Christian resources.
We are currently studying the presidents of America and just going on-line and using 'wikipedia'.
To my shock:
Chrisitianity is not what I'm finding.
 
I was first made aware of this several years ago when we were at a conference in Nashville, Tn. 
We were near the residence of President Jackson so were able to enjoy a tour of his place. 
I had heard of his outstanding love letters written to his wife and how they were being used as a model for husbands to write love letters to their wives.
He also was portrayed as being a
good Christian husband and leader and I was looking forward to seeing his museum, etc.
 
I was shocked by how differently he was
portrayed by the secular world.
"Christian" was not the word they used.
"Adultery and Hot-tempered" were their words. 
His "wife" was a wife of another man with whom he was living in an adulterous relationship with. 
The world considered it a very scandalous affair. 
 He also was known for his hot temper and several men were killed when his temper was enraged
and in duels with him. 
He did not treat his slaves with kindness.
Where does "Chrisitan" fit into all of this? 
 I was quite puzzled.
 
Now as we are studying the early presidents a.k.a. "Our Founding Fathers", I am again quite puzzled.
 
Presidents Washington (1st), Jefferson (3rd), Madison (4th), and Monroe (5th) were Deists.
What are Deists?
Deists believe in one God, but do not believe in supernatural events such as miracles; they do not believe in the inerrancy of Scripture or in the Trinity.
 
Presidents John Adams (2nd) and
John Quincy Adams (6th) were Unitarians.
What are Unitarians?
Unitarians do not accept the Godhood of Jesus.  They do not believe in the Trinity.  They maintain that Jesus was a great man and a prophet of God, even a supernatural being, but not God Himself.
 
I am baffled. 
 I do believe that Christian principles were used
when our nation was established
but  it appears here that our "Founding Fathers" didn't even profess to be Christians.
Several of them are believed to have fathered a number of children through slave women and one is believed to have sold his own children.
John Quincy Adams took his oath of office on a book of laws instead of the Bible.
 
I was also disappointed in what I read about their families.  What kind of fathers were they?
I would encourage you to go look. 
 
Am I studying in the wrong places or
why do I feel so misguided?
 
The lesson for me is to check more carefully what my kids are being taught and what we are using for resources. 
 
Just because it says "Christian" doesn't make it "Christian".
 
Happy studying in the days ahead!