Together as One

Together as One

Thursday, May 31, 2012

A Promise of Friendship

I've been thinking alot lately about friendship, loyalty, brotherhood/sisterhood, unity, peace, conflict.... sometimes my head is so full of thoughts I can't keep up with myself!

"Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Thy sight, O Lord."

What are the real meditations of my heart? Are they acceptable to God?
Sometimes I have alot of 'uglies' inside that dare to spill out my mouth.   Sadly, they will usually spill onto those that I love the most.  Not good.  And sometimes I have a lot of 'uglies' that don't spill out but they brew inside.  The only cure I've found for that is time alone with God.  He alone can cleanse me from the inside out. He alone knows the cries of my heart.

Last Sunday our teacher read some very thought provoking words.  They've been rolling in my mind all week (in this context, written for women).

"You have been hurt by women.  I can see the pain in your eyes...And I've never done this before but...I feel prompted to make you a promise of friendship."

"I promise I will never speak an unkind word to or about you.  I will never be jealous of you.  I will never compete with you.  I will never abandon or betray you.  I will love you.  I will pray for you.  I will do all I can to help you go far and wide in the Kingdom.

I will accept you as you are, always.  I will be loyal to you.  Before our loving God of grace, you have my words and my heart in friendship for this life and forever with Him."

I hear loyalty, commitment, safety, love, peace...and those words move me.  God did not bless me with many physical tears (and He and I have had many meetings about that until He told me I have 'heart tears' that are just as important to Him) but those words will almost always evoke tears.  Those words go deep with me...and very little hurts me more than the opposite of those words. 

In reality we will probably never make such a vow to each other and I'm not sure we could completely keep it if we did; but what if we at least tried?  How would my friends like to know that "I've got their back"?  How would they like to know that I will not talk about them in negative way to anyone else?  How would they like to know that I will not be jealous over them or try to compete with them but instead I will do everything I can to make them successful in God's Kingdom and in life?  How would they like to know that I will not abandon or betray them?  How would they like to know that I love them and will pray for them?  How would they like to know that I will accept them even when they do things differently then I would? (And I'm not referring to accepting sin)   How would they like to know that I will be loyal to them?

By God's grace and power I want to be and have tried to be that kind of friend.  Keep me accountable...if you hear 'uglies' come out of my mouth-- call me to the table on it!  Don't let me get by with it. 

I truly believe that there is some thing so hugely powerful about love, loyalty, and commitment that if we could truly live that way.........there would be an evangelism explosion!  Jesus said, "By this (love) shall all men know that ye are my disciples...by your love for each other." 

So why don't we love like that? 
When I'm hurting, I want to hurt others.  True, sometimes we hurt others simply because we are hurting and it is SO important that we address our hurts with God. 

 ....but sometimes it is simply because we are ME centered creatures. I want what I want, I want my way, I want things done my way, I, I, I.  What does Jesus say?  In James 4 we read "What is causing quarrels and fights among you?  Don't they come from the evil desires at war within you?  You want what you don't have, so you scheme and kill to get it. You are jealous of what others have, but you can't get it, so you fight and wage war to take it away from them."
When I am perfectly honest with God, most of the time that I don't love and let the 'uglies' spill out it is because I have evil (self centered) desires warring within me.  I want to kill with my mouth and scheme how to get what I want.  And *gasp* sometimes it is because I am jealous (did I just say that?!) of others!  Do I ever wage war?  Really?   And sometimes I have the 'uglies' because *cringe* I don't esteem you better than myself.  Boy, that's embarrassing!

I got my work cut out for me or should I say "God's got His hands full with me"?  I need His grace every day, every  hour of every day.  I need Him to show me how to love His way, how to esteem other's ways better than mine, how to show the world I am His Disciple by my love for my friends.  You know, sometimes it's easier to love those in the world than it is to love those in the church or even in our own families.

Is this kind of love possible or are my hopes, dreams, and prayers not reality?
I would love to hear your feedback on this. 

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Presenting the Graduate of 2012




Amazing.... my third child is preparing for Graduation from high school!  Preparation for graduation takes me down memory lane as I work on his dvd, scrapbook, etc.....from new born through grade school.  It's incredible how much happens in 18 years.  I am exited to present you with Derek Landon Weaver, the 2012 graduate!!!   Derek worked hard to complete his schooling and I am proud of him for sticking it out to completion.


God bless you, Derek, as you finalize your high school years and step into the future God has planned for you!  We are confident God has big plans for you and will lead you one step at a time. 
Thank you for the joy you have been to our family!
We love you and will always be here for you.

Looking forward to the future with you...... Love from Dad and Mom

Thursday, May 3, 2012

It's Tomato Season in Florida

From field to shelf......
The commercial pickers  are done and the fields have been opened up for the locals to come in and pick.  Saturday JR was gone all day and Dustin was working so KaShondra, Derek, Erica and I went to pick.  Tomatoes are $1.00 for a 5-gallon bucket all-you-can-pick.  I cannot grow them for that!


The tomato plants weren't as tall this year nor the tomatoes as large 
but they were beautiful and plentiful!
There were so many they were rotting on the vines.  
They were also very easy to pick.  Each row is covered with black plastic before they plant 
and poles with strings are strung through the rows to guide the plants as they grow.
That makes for some good picking!


Every couple rows there is a drive way so you can drive your vehicle right close to where 
you are picking at.  We were glad Kyle let us use his truck because we picked 14 buckets full!



Once home from the fields we set them in air conditioned conditions until Monday
when the processing began....

First we washed and rinsed all the chemicals and sprays off of them.








Then we sliced them and cooked them just a bit...


...before running them through the Victorio Strainer


and out comes fresh tomato juice!


Into the jars



and then to the canner.  I like to tuck a couple rags around the middle one
to keep the jars from jarring each other too much.
After rapidly boiling them for twenty minutes they are ready to come out.





Here is a fresh batch of salsa being made.  
This family's philosophy is "the hotter the better" (with the exception of myself)!
So we add extra hot peppers and if not hot enough we top it off with red pepper.


What a pleasant feeling to hear the jars "ting" as they seal up!



What a blessing to have our stock for another year plus being able to bless
friends and neighbors with fresh tomatoes.